Sunday, May 28 1 comments

Rolling Thunder - 2006

Today Jeff and I did the Rolling Thunder motorcycle event. It's a legal demonstration to promote the importance of benefits and government support for Veterans and more importantly to remember the POW/MIA's that are still not home. Jeff is very proud of his military experience and this event reinforces the already strong sense duty and honor he feels for his time served.

Last night we sat outside the hotel watching bikers come in from around the country. Most staying in our hotel came from New Jersey and Ohio but there were a few other states also represented. Some older men were sitting on a park bench next to us discussing their military experience and comparing stories. When the conversation turned to Rolling Thunder they talked about how they preferred to go down by the mall and watch the motorcycles come in instead of actually do any riding in the event. One guy was pretty negative about the whole thing. He said he spent 5 hours just waiting in the Pentagon parking lot to ride the 30-minute route to the Vietnam Wall because there were 400,000 bikes there for the ride. He also said that the parking lot was enclosed by highway on all sides so it gets unbearably hot just sitting on the black asphalt as the sun beat down with no air circulation. On a positive note, he did mention the reward as you ride past about 150,000 clapping and cheering people lined up along the streets.

We were told by another rider to meet at the local Harley dealer at 10 AM for a police escort to the Pentagon parking lot. We thought that was a good idea so we didn't have to figure out the way to the Pentagon on our own. And a two hour wait for the start didn't sound so bad. The old man told us that it was a good idea to ride with the Harley group as they would end up in the North parking lot and the North lot goes first. With 400,000 bikes going down the streets in pairs, it would obviously take a long time for all of them to get out. So if we were located towards the beginning of the pack, the wait might only be a few hours instead of more than 5. The old guy claimed that he was still waiting at 4 in the afternoon to get to the Wall. Good thing we were going with the Harley group, because that sounded awful. He also mentioned that the ride from the Harley dealership left at 9, not 10 so we needed to be aware that if we got there at 10 we would be too late. Sounds like all good information to me.

We stopped at a McDonald’s for some coffee, as it turns out, their new coffee is fantastic. We met a couple from the area, Mike and Sippi. They were enthusiastic about Rolling Thunder but since they were locals they did mention that if it was raining they would have stayed in bed. Not an option for us. Mike gave us some good information for the touristy part of our visit then the couple headed out to the Harley dealership. We finished our coffee and looked forward to meeting up with them again.

We headed to the Harley dealer, but our directions from the HOG website were not quite accurate. Good thing we left way early because it was 8:40 by the time we got there. There was just enough time to hit the porta-potties and get back on the bike. As we waited in the line of bikes we were approached by Mike and Sippi. As it turns out, his tire blew out on the ride over to the dealership. Luckily they were ok, but unfortunately that was the end of their ride. I took their photo just before we rode away. I was disappointed that we wouldn’t get to know more about them.


The police escort was great, only I wish I would have paid more attention to how we got there to make the ride back easier. Oh well. When we got to the Pentagon lot we parked in the order that we arrived. We got off the bike and started to walk the lot checking out all the vendor booths along our path. As we crossed the road to the other parking lot we were in for a rude awakening. The North lot was not the first lot to go through the parade route, it was the last! This meant a long, long wait for our time to ride. But to bide our time we found a nice grassy spot to sit and view the bikes. We took lots of photos and met some people from Orlando. The conversation started out with, "What branch were you in?", followed by a discussion of service, the military, and the experiences encountered during that time. Over the years, I've discovered that this is as standard with veterans as the phrase, "how are you today?". The good conversation and the people-watching really made the time go by. We got there around 10 and here it was 11:45 already. The Rolling Thunder dignitaries were mounting their bikes, the blessing at the beginning of the ride was said, by then it was noon and they were off.

We watched the bikes start their ride to the Wall and said goodbye to our new Orlando friends. We sat on the divider wall in this grassy area for a long time, realizing that it wasn't as hot as the old man had mentioned because of the breeze blowing off the highway. This wasn't as bad as he had made it out to be. Before you knew it, most of the bikes were cleared out of the first lot and we thought we better head over to the North lot by our bike. We stopped in the shade for a while to watch the final bikes move out of the South lot. We met a man from Maryland while we were hanging out. He gave us great directions back to our hotel and we had an interesting discussion about September 11th and the events following the attack. He was really interesting. He showed us where the plane hit the Pentagon and talked about how tough his wife's commute to the city was. Before you knew it, we were running back to our bikes because it was our turn in the parade. And believe it or not, it wasn’t even 2:00. The old man was wrong again.

We rode down the city streets to a cheering crowd. There was a Marine in full dress blues standing in the middle of the street at attention, rifle and helmet strategically placed in front of him - a symbol of missing in action. The Marine was saluting as we passed by. He stood in that pose for the entire parade. Just the discipline to stand there for hours was pretty amazing but the intense heat with the temperature hovering around 85 must have made it more difficult. It has a moving effect that reminds us why we’re there. It was really fun to slap hands with the spectators, the interaction made it feel more personal. The streets weren’t as crowded as I had anticipated, again the old man was wrong. I would estimate the crowd in the low thousands but there’s no way 150,000 were watching us go by. Maybe that can be attributed to the heat and the length of the parade. Maybe there were more people during the first hour.

So far most information we’ve been given has been wrong. But that’s ok, his unhappiness in the experience was our gain. We really enjoyed being part of something as monumental and dramatic as this.

We parked our bike at the end of the parade and it was only 2:30 in the afternoon. We spent the rest of the day touring the mall. The Korean War memorial was impressive, to me even more so than the Vietnam Memorial Wall. Maybe that’s because my dad was in the Korean War. Just take a look at this picture and you can decide for yourself.





The World War II Memorial and the Vietnam Memorial Wall are both meaningful and unique in their creation. All of the memorials have their distinct features. I found the Korean War Memorial a passionate reflection of those who served; the World War II Memorial was massive in its representation, which really gave you this sense of the enormity of that war. The Vietnam Wall is a sight to behold; the seemingly never-ending names on the wall reflect those who have given their lives for our freedom and the somberness of the crowd is moving in itself. I traced the name of a co-worker’s dad; he was one of the early casualties of the war so he is located on the very first panel. I was sobbing by the time I finished.

We walked to the top of the Lincoln Memorial and strolled by the Washington Monument. Jeff just had to stick his hand in the reflection pool. Then we headed back to the hotel for a swim, dinner, and relaxation. It was a memorable experience that would remain in our hearts and minds for many years to come.

Friday, May 26 0 comments

Vacation - Day 1

Day 1

I got up at 4, showered and dressed, had my morning coffee then headed out at 5:45. It was officially 5:46 when the motorcycle headed down the driveway. Jeff says it wasn't as early as he would have like, but then he is the only one to blame for that. He is such a procrastinator. We rode down I-94 to I-294 to avoid the Chicago construction and the major traffic jams that occur there. The traffic was still too heavy for my liking but we got through. We made a few stops along the way, always worrying about the weather. It was cool and overcast, rain threatened all day. Since the sun wasn't shining, the ride was on the chilly side, and full leathers were worth their weight. We hit a downpour for the first time around 1:30 so we put on the rainsuits and helmets and continued on. The rain cleared within half an hour but it still loomed. At 4:30 it started to rain again so we pulled off the road to find a hotel. We were in Newton Falls, Ohio. We were hoping to get to Youngstown but the rain put an end to that.

Day 1 is done and we logged 491 miles. We're more than halfway.
Thursday, May 25 0 comments

Job interview

I have a job interview in 15 minutes. I hate this, I am nervous, I have a zit on my chin, and I feel gassy and bloated. Can anything else go wrong? I just hope I don't make a fool out of myself. And do I really want this job? My job is so easy and I get paid plenty. Some days I really want more of a challenge but this coasting thing can be pretty cool too. I just don't know....

What am I saying? I am not a slacker, and I won't let my brain turn to mush. It's time!
Wednesday, May 24 0 comments

Work angst

Why am I so compelled to chuckle at my friend's angst? Could it be because she brought it on herself? Is it that her overt bragging about her new important job with the big money increase and great benefits like 4 weeks' vacation isn't quite the bed of roses that she anticipated it would be? I know it sounds like jealousy but it's not. I've had my share of luck in the job market so I am grateful for where I am on my career path. And I want nothing but success for her too. But it takes a certain temperament to handle stressful situations on a daily basis and I'm not sure she is emotionally equipped to handle it.

From the beginning, I worried. She described the job in great detail. Running a department, managing other's schedules, planning weekly meetings, all while getting the responsibilities done that she is and always was qualified to do. Now I know there are many people who can fit the bill, after all, someone quit this job and moved on to a better one in order to make it available. But you have to understand my friend's personality traits. She is like a rollercoaster. The mood swings go up and down at an extremely fast pace. As soon as you get over a hill, we're flying down the opposite extreme. I've always labeled her as passionate. Whether good or bad, the emotions are clear, sharp, and distinctive. You will always know where you stand with her.

When she got the job I was happy for her. Working at Aurora is an awful thing. Every slacker and loser employee that I worked with at my last job got in with Aurora, they took all the leftovers nobody else wanted when our employer went out of business. That is why I will never take a job there. Don't want to be lumped in with all those crappy people.

With her emotions on her sleeve, my friend is clearly going to have trouble managing many, many tasks at one time. She is a hard worker, but one thing at a time is a better pace for her and the concept that you cannot possibly finish a task all at once will eventually put her over the edge. I think she's getting close to that edge.

When I mentioned my up-coming vacation to her today, her response was, " At least you can go on vacation."

What does that mean? I wondered.

So I asked her: "I thought you got lots of vacation in your new job."

She responded: " I do. Can't ever get away from here. I have committee meetings 3 times a month.....and different weeks and a million other tasks. If I'm not getting ready for some meeting, I'm working on credentialing. I have been pushing for an extra body. We are dealing with a change of command right now so nothing is really getting dealt with. "

Closer and closer to the edge.

The problem as I see it is that she has to let go. Come to terms with the idea that you cannot possibly complete everything and make that known to those you work with. Delegate back to others the stuff you can and try not to take control of everything. Things may not turn out exactly as you like them to but then you are not driving yourself crazy either. It takes a certain demeanor to be able to handle a multi-task environment and I'm afraid that she doesn't have what it takes. I do wish her well but when you're losing sleep over getting your job done, you have to ask yourself if it's all worth it.

I bet she starts looking for another job within the next year.
Monday, May 22 0 comments

Tour de Cure

Yesterday was my second bike run. I've ridden in an organized bike ride once before and it was only 25 miles which was incredibly easy. So I was really looking forward to this 100K Tour de Cure ride. I had my new bike and all the necessary gear. I was prepped for the long haul. The Diabetes Association is my family's charity of choice since Bailee's diagnosis when she was 9 years old.

Jeff and I got to the high school where the ride started and already there were little problems. I filled out the necessary waiver in advance and had the required monetary donation check written out. But I didn't have it in the proper envelope, so I had to fill one out. I didn't have my glasses on so I couldn't see the form so I obviously could not consider filling anything out. After Jeff took care of it for me we were on our way.

As we headed back to the car to drop off all the Tour de Cure pamphlets and unnecessary crap they gave us at the sign-in table, I couldn't find my sunglasses. I know I had them on my head when I went in so I must have left them on the table. I went back and they weren't there only I discovered I stuck them in my pocket and forgot. By the time all this was said and done, the 7:30 gun went off signifying the start of the ride. We still had to drop off the papers we were given before we could get started.

As we hopped on the bikes, mine was clanking from the sound of shifting gears. Jeff asked me if I wanted to stop at the repair booth before we got started but I really didn't want to hold him up anymore. He is an avid bike rider and he was already getting a late start because of me. So off we went, he was gaining speed much quicker than me and I told him to just go at his own pace as I would have done if we were running. But my bike was not cooperating. I've had problems with the gears before and I can usually shift my way out. I was struggling with this plan now. It would finally get into the right gear but it was taking more canoodling than usual to get there. Jeff saw me struggle and waited for me to catch up. I told him my complaint and we decided I would definitely have to stop at the repair booth at the first rest stop.

Unfortunately the first rest stop didn't come up until I had two major shifting problems. Both occurred during the steep inclines of hills. I ended up walking my bike up both because I could not get into gear at all. I now get the saying "spinning your wheels". Mine were spinning and I was going nowhere.

As I finally got to the first rest stop Jeff was there waiting. I asked him, “How many miles do we have done, 15?” He said eight. Oh my God! It took me an hour to go eight miles. How terribly disappointing. The repair guy quickly adjusted my gears and we were back on the road. I was thrilled to be able to ride without the nasty clicking sound of the changing of the gears even when I wasn’t changing gears. But I got to the next big hill, shifted to a higher gear and bam! The chain moved to a lower gear and the forward jerk nearly knocked me off my bike. Again, I was stopped mid-hill unable to pedal. I finally got started again as I could see Jeff’s backside disappear from view because he was so far ahead of me.


As I headed down the road, the signs to follow became somewhat confusing. A sag truck approached and asked if everything was OK. I said yes, except I wasn’t sure which direction I should be going. I was directed to head straight into the park ahead, go through the park, and I would end up back where I was standing. So I was to take a loop around to the right only to end up going to the left in order to get more mileage from the ride. Meanwhile, Jeff was heading down the road to the left when he saw me going straight. He headed all the way back thinking he was going in the wrong direction. He caught up to me in the park where I explained to him that he was actually heading in the right direction; he just missed the half-mile trek through the park. So we did it together which was kind of silly for him since he was pretty far ahead when he turned around to find me.

We rode together as I told him my latest saga on my ride up the hill. The next rest stop came up and I was back at the repair booth while Jeff waited for me. As soon as we headed out, turned the corner and went up a slight incline I was actually yelling as my chain popped into another gear. Another rider pulled up and asked me if I was OK. I said yes, just frustrated. After I explained the problem, he got out his tool kit and made an adjustment. He showed me what to do to tighten the slack so the gears would work better. After that, we were on the road again.

I apologized to Jeff for keeping him from his planned ride. He said it’s no big deal; he would worry if he got too far ahead since I’m having so many problems. He also mentioned that we would probably finish in six hours at the pace we are on. We planned on finishing in four. We kept going as the latest repair seemed to have worked (no thanks to the “professionals”) and we were picking up the pace. I felt like I was flying. We were moving at a great pace and things were going well. We weaved through the winding road effortlessly until we got the stop sign to cross the highway. I was moving at a very fast pace, not planning to stop unless there was a car coming. Jeff was a little freaked. He was behind me and he could see a car coming over the hill onto our path. I didn’t see it until I got to the other side of the trees much nearer the stop sign and I applied my brakes hard to make a quick stop. I loved how my bike reacted. I was having fun. Finally.

As I stopped, Jeff panicked as he was thinking I wasn’t going to stop. In the distraction he struggled to get out of his clips. They didn’t release and he toppled over on his side. I felt so bad because I’m sure this was my fault. At the same time I was annoyed because he spends too much time worrying about things he shouldn’t worry about. In this case I mean me. So he picked himself up, righted his bike and put the chain that fell off during the fall back on. So we were off again but this time a little more cautiously than before. As we headed through town we had to make many turns in and out of traffic which can be a little unnerving. The open road is much better where you can concentrate on your breathing and pedaling, forgetting about the distraction of traffic.

At the next corner, a group of 5 bikers waited with us for the next break in traffic to turn. As we waited, Jeff slipped again, tumbling into the biker next to him. Luckily he didn’t damage the other guy or his bike only this time Jeff was feeling a bit too beat up. Not only did this damage his self-confidence, he was scraped up pretty good. As he put the chain back on his bike again, we decided to make this a 50K ride instead of the 100K. He told me the only reason he was doing the 100K was because I wanted to, he originally was going to sign up for the 50K. So now I really felt bad. Not only did I ruin the start and his timing on this ride, I changed his plans for the length of his ride. With the decision made, things were feeling a little easier. We now felt like we were going to accomplish this within a reasonable amount of time and that it was almost over. So far this ride felt like and eternity but now… only 8 miles to go!

Jeff disappeared into the horizon almost as soon as we got going again. His swift pace is truly inspiring and I was hoping that he was enjoying this last leg of the ride since he wasn’t having much fun up to this point. As I pulled up to the finish line, he was standing there waiting for me. His kindness and patience is admirable, if it were me I would probably be pouting on the side of the road. We enjoyed some sandwiches and drinks handed out by the volunteers after the ride then headed home.

I wasn’t sure he would tell anyone about his difficult time, but he did. He didn’t have to; I wasn’t going to mention it. But after all it did feel better to talk about it. We enjoyed a soak in the hot tub when we got home to ease the pain of the bumps and bruises. It was nice to know we would have all afternoon to hang out at home. I made him a nice dinner and we moved on. He is already talking about next time so that’s good. I know I am looking forward to completing my first 100K but I don’t think it will be anytime soon.
Saturday, May 20 0 comments

Music Meme

1. Go to musicoutfitters.com .
2. Enter the year you graduated from high school (1974) in the search function and get the list of 100 most popular songs of that year.
3. Bold the songs you like, strike through the ones you hate and italicize your favorite. Do nothing to the ones you don't remember (or don't care about).

1. The Way We Were, Barbra Streisand
2. Seasons In The Sun, Terry Jacks
3. Love's Theme, Love Unlimited Orchestra
4. Come And Get Your Love, Redbone
5. Dancing Machine, Jackson 5
6. The Loco-Motion, Grand Funk Railroad
7. TSOP, MFSB
8. The Streak, Ray Stevens
9. Bennie And The Jets, Elton John
10. One Hell Of A Woman, Mac Davis
11. Until You Come Back To Me (That's What I'm Gonna Do), Aretha Franklin
12. Jungle Boogie, Kool and The Gang
13. Midnight At The Oasis, Maria Muldaur
14. You Make Me Feel Brand New, Stylistics
15. Show And Tell, Al Wilson
16. Spiders And Snakes, Jim Stafford
17. Rock On, David Essex
18. Sunshine On My Shoulder, John Denver
19. Sideshow, Blue Magic
20. Hooked On A Feeling, Blue Swede
21. Billy Don't Be A Hero, Bo Donaldson and The Heywoods
22. Band On The Run, Paul McCartney and Wings
23. The Most Beautiful Girl, Charlie Rich
24. Time In A Bottle, Jim Croce
25. Annie's Song, John Denver
26. Let Me Be There, Olivia Newton-John
27. Sundown, Gordon Lightfoot
28. (You're) Having My Baby, Paul Anka
29. Rock Me Gently, Andy Kim
30. Boogie Down, Eddie Kendricks
31. You're Sixteen, Ringo Starr
32. If You Love Me (Let Me Know), Olivia Newton-John
33. Dark Lady, Cher
34. Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me, Gladys Knight and The Pips
35. Feel Like Makin' Love, Roberta Flack
36. Just Dont Want To Be Lonely, Main Ingredient
37. Nothing From Nothing, Billy Preston
38. Rock Your Baby, George McCrae
39. Top Of The World, Carpenters
40. The Joker, Steve Miller Band
41. I've Got To Use My Imagination, Gladys Knight and The Pips
42. The Show Must Go On, Three Dog Night
43. Rock The Boat, Hues Corporation
44. Smokin' In The Boys Room, Brownsville Station
45. Living For The City, Stevie Wonder
46. The Night Chicago Died, Paper Lace
47. Then Came You, Dionne Warwick and The Spinners
48. The Entertainer, Marvin Hamlisch
49. Waterloo, Abba
50. The Air That I Breathe, Hollies
51. Rikki Don't Lose That Number, Steely Dan
52. Mockingbird, Carly Simon
53. Help Me, Joni Mitchell
54. You Won't See Me, Anne Murray
55. Never, Never Gonna Give You Up, Barry White
56. Tell Me Something Good, Rufus
57. You And Me Against The World, Helen Reddy
58. Rock And Roll Heaven, Righteous Brothers
59. Hollywood Swinging, Kool and The Gang
60. Be Thankful For What You Got, William Devaughn
61. Hang On In There Baby, Johnny Bristol
62. Eres Tu (Touch The Wind), Mocedades
63. Taking Care Of Business, Bachman-Turner Overdrive
64. Radar Love, Golden Earring
65. Please Come To Boston, Dave Loggins
66. Keep On Smilin', Wet Willie
67. Lookin' For Love, Bobby Womack
68. Put Your Hands Together, O'Jays
69. On And On, Gladys Knight and The Pips
70. Oh Very Young, Cat Stevens
71. Leave Me Alone (Ruby Red Dress), Helen Reddy
72. Goodbye Yellow Brick Road, Elton John
73. I've Been Searchin' So Long, Chicago
74. Oh My My, Ringo Starr
75. For The Love Of Money, O'Jays
76. I Shot The Sherrif, Eric Clapton
77. Jet, Paul McCartney and Wings
78. Don't Let The Sun Go Down On Me, Elton John
79. Tubular Bells, Mike Oldfield
80. Love Song, Anne Murray
81. I'm Leaving It All Up To You, Donny and Marie Osmond
82. Hello, It's Me, Todd Rundgren
83. I Love, Tom T. Hall
84. Clap For The Wolfman, The Guess Who
85. I'll Have To Say I Love You In A Song, Jim Croce
86. The Lord's Prayer, Sister Janet Mead
87. Trying To Hold On To My Woman, Lamont Dozier
88. Don't You Worry 'Bout A Thing, Stevie Wonder
89. A Very Special Love Song, Charlie Rich
90. My Girl Bill, Jim Stafford
91. My Mistake Was To Love You, Diana Ross and Marvin Gaye
92. Helen Wheels, Paul McCartney and Wings
93. Wildwood Weed, Jim Stafford
94. Beach Baby, First Class
95. Me And Baby Brother, War
96. Rockin' Roll Baby, Stylistics
97. I Honestly Love You, Olivia Newton-John
98. Call On Me, Chicago
99. Wild Thing, Fancy
100. Mighty Love, Pt. 1, Spinners
 
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